The name of God is blasphemed among the Gentiles because of you.
Isaiah 52:5, Ezekiel 36:22, Romans 2:24
I believe President Obama is wrong in his support for gay marriage. Jesus Christ taught the same standard for marriage as found in Genesis 2:21-24 when he answered the Pharisees about divorce in Matthew 19:1-9. Male and female … For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and the two will become one flesh. For homosexuals to choose a life partner and be granted a legal recognition by a civil authority may be suitable for this world. But, homosexuality is a sin. Thus, Holy matrimony for a gay or lesbian couple is not possible according to the Bible and Orthodox, Catholic, and Protestant tradition.
With that said, we heterosexuals have a hell of a lot to answer for. If we fear that gay marriage will make a mockery of the traditional family, I recommend that we take a hard look at the way we corrupt monogamy degrade sex on a regular basis. The Chris Miller/Kim Kardashian “marriage” comes to my mind rather quickly. Oh, it was a heterosexual union. But, how serious was it? Did they marry with a true spiritual bond with each other and committed hearts to withstand good and bad times together? Or was it a sham based on their egos, sensual pleasure, and making a profit from a celebrity gossip hungry media? If our nation can accept this perversion of holy matrimony, then two men or two women with a committed bond with one another getting married is not a far stretch.
In the liturgical church traditions; a sermon on the seriousness, love, and committment is a part of the wedding ceremony. How many of us had a sermon at our wedding? Weddings have become an industry from high fashion magazines, to professional planners and photographers (and photographers get paid far more than the minister who officiates the service and signs the legal documents). These ceremonies used to take place exclusively in the bride’s or groom’s church. At least in the home or on land owned by one of the families. Today, anyone can go to Las Vegas and have Elvis as the minister backed up by a punk rock band, or just go through the drive thru chapel. Or, one can spend thousands on one of those story-book weddings which may seem impressive enough to hide the fact that neither the bride nor groom are committed to life long monogamy. And after the divorce, the bride or groom swears to have a bigger and better wedding than the first one. If we heterosexuals participate in such shallow marketing of what was a blessed and honorable institution, why should homosexuals be denied the privilege?
And isn’t it strange how the language of sex is used as an insult to manhood? Think of the particular word for intercourse is a curse word as is the slang term for the female genitals. With the easy access to hardcore pornography and the general acceptance of softcore nudes and semi nudes in sexually charged situations, what was once to be done naked and unashamed has become an act of ridicule and recreational pleasure. In fact, the sheer brutality women go through in today’s porn and the rate of sexual abuse against girls has brought the value of the female body in this society to an all-time low. Should I be upset when two men want to commit to a union where they are unlikely to contribute further to this abuse? Should I be angry when two women, who most likely suffered sexual abuse at the hands of men, seek solace in a marital bond with each other?
Chances are no one is going to vote for or against the president on this issue alone. Therefore, I see little value of having a too strong of an opinion about gay marriage one way or the other (although I know where I stand). We heterosexuals have done far more damage to holy matrimony than one man’s words. Unless we are serious about cleaning up the mess we made, we look rather foolish trying to put limitations on someone else.
… and with the measure you use, it will be measured back to you.