I think the Orthodox Church is making an awful mistake in its approach to abortion and same-sex marriages. Of course, the ancient faith correctly stands against these sins based on the holy scriptures and the writings of the early fathers. But, I have heard and seen several clerics and podcasters overlook the root cause of these evils and not promote the church’s best tools to fight against it.
America is an over-sexual nation. Boys start looking at porn as young as 8 years old. In some cities, eleven year old girls have their first sexual encounters. Even in our prime-time TV shows and other non-pornographic media, we are fed a diet of pursuing erotic gratification by any means necessary and legal. We are taught that making love is the pinnacle of the human experience. With such propaganda being such a part of our lives, unwanted pregnancies are going to happen. Those attracted to the same-sex will seek social acceptability and flaunt their activity.
The way to kill a weed is to kill the root. Not the leaves nor flowers which can regenerate. But, when the root is killed, the weed is killed. When the root is weakened, the weed loses its vigor. Thus to weaken and eliminate abortion and the gay marriage push, Christianity must promote the fact that the pinnacle of human experience is union with God. All other achievements and experiences are secondary and temporal. In order for us to be eternal, we must seek the experience that is eternal. When Americans understand and accept this truth, couples will reconsider how frequently they have intercourse. Hetero as well as homosexuals will rethink their activity and better strive to put their will in God’s.
Anyone who fast according to Orthodox tradition gives up sexual activity as well as meat and dairy. Thus, a married Orthodox couple permits themselves to make love only half a year. Combine this with a woman’s regular cycle and time and energy spent in prayer disciplines and other pursuits, married sex (as pleasurable as it is) does not mean quite as much as popular media promotes it. Also, Orthodoxy offers the option of giving up one’s self to the monastic lifestyle. People are free to devote themselves to celibacy and prayer. This is a truly rebellious existance against the world of Sports Illustrated models and “pride” parades. Orthodoxy has the tools of fasting and monasticism to attack the very root of abortion, gay marriage, and nearly every other toxic leaf and flower of our over sexed society.
But, too often, Orthodoxy clergy and laity settle for attacking leaves and flowers rather than the root. There is nothing wrong with bishops marching for life. But, why not have a march for celibacy as well? There are atheist and secular voices who feel that too many people are thoughtlessly entering into sexual relationships and would like to see an option. With over 2,000 years worth of holy men and women, I am certain that the clergy can find some common ground with these people as well as Catholics and Protestants. Of course we should speak out against gay marriage. But, the protection of our children from unnecessary sexual imagery and contact ought to be of greater concern. I would dare say that most homosexual organizations are against the exploitation of children and would rather have gay teens pursuing academics, arts, and athletics rather than sexual activity. Why not talk with the more sober-minded among this community? As long as Orthodox leaders speak the same language as Catholics and Evangelical Protestants, the ancient faith will be seen as just another denomination of “hateful Christians.” But if the Church has dialogue with the “pro-life” and “pro-equality” movements and offers God’s alternative, some of them may be led to Orthodoxy. They will, at least, have more respect for your perspective.
So to you bishops, priest, scholars, and other Orthodox personalities (hello Ancient Faith Radio and OCN podcasters); use the tools of the great church you belong to. It is because of your deep resources that some Protestants became attracted to Orthodoxy.